Misogyny and other gender issues.
  • I knew that would happen.
  • I believe you doesn't mean don't investigate and corroborate. What WaPa did is exactly what it means.

    Wut?
  • Gonz edited, so now that doesn't make sense.
  • Alright, but that first sentence doesn't make much sense, regardless.
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    Facewon wrote:
    Sexually abused, repeatedly, the girl who played the daughter in the show. Under 12 when the show started.
    I saw the premiere of Boar last week and she and John Jarratt et al were there for a Q&A. Christ she is small. Also get on Boar @DS.
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    Is it about the war on chauvinism?
  • Gonz edited, so now that doesn't make sense.

    Yeah turns out the guys who did the fake allegation were trying to defend a candidate for senator from allegations of historical abuse. Since I used this example of the sting to, er, do precisely what they intended, this left me feeling rather uncomfortable.

    I still don't get the whole we believe you automatically thing. It's very comforting that WaPo did some research, but on Twitter and whatnot I don't think that'll happen.

    Also, as a dude, and small time, it does make me feel quite exposed. I mean, I spent one weekend with a crazy broad, said how she was a feminist and all that. Was dtf the night we met, next day I found out she worked in same building as me IE same Ultimate employer. First night of ficky facky, after a while she asks me to slap her and tell her she's worthless. I mean, what if a girl like that - a 9/10 cute as fuck redhead, turns around, says I taped and hit her, and they look at my fucking ugly mug and she has marks on her face? No fucking way I get off that charge bro. My ass be in jail

    Luckily
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  • Finally read that. Amazing.

    "Shitler Youth" tier 1 diss-name for alt right.

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  • Interesting read that. Echoes a lot of things I've been wondering about for some time now.
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  • About a week ago, Megan Ganz, a writer on Community (and lots more besides) called out Dan Harmon on Twitter for being, well, an arsehole.  There was a pretty civil exchange in which he broadly acknowledged that she was right, and that he had been "an awful boss and a selfish baby".  He's now gone on to apologise in more detail on his podcast.  Ganz has described it as a "masterclass in How To Apologise", which might be overstating it, but Hell, she's earned the right to make the call.

    Anyway, it strikes me that it's still a long way from where we need to be, but this sort of honest reflection on Why We Fuck Up is a good start at least.

    The podcast's here, the stuff I'm talking about starts at 18:38
  • Meanwhile, James Franco.

    Time did a list of 115 people accused since Weinstein. So many you forget.
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    In Lechoriam at the Oscars.
  • https://www.thecut.com/2018/01/pop-cultures-great-awokening.html

    Shout out to @tempy for the link. Cracking read.

    Whether or not you're a fan of identity politics or not, it's worth a read as an overview of the last year + and the current state of popular culture and how we interact with it.

    The way structural stuff around capitalism and neoliberalism is basically ignored is clearly why pilger and other old school left/socialists and old school feminists get shitty with it.
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    I don't know how true it is, but I read some bits and bobs recently about how race doesn't exist as we know it in Colombia. This desire to extricate ourselves from negative majorities, lining ourselves up in their crosshairs in the process, is a problem without clear answers.

    2017 was a year of Left division. That's a great shame, because we still have most of the same goals.
  • That sounds like Eskimos having x number of words for snow.
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    Is it like India's castes? It's possibly more documented in Brazil. I was wondering about Colombians' heritage because of their geography and long-ago immigration. As diverse as the UK is historically, most of our ancestors were white.

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mestizos_in_Venezuela
  • This is probably a good one for the likes of @Facewon who see themselves as people who are progressive on women’s rights but slightly uncomfortable with certain aspects of how things have unfolded:

    https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2018/jan/17/assault-is-not-a-feeling-the-aziz-ansari-story-shows-why-language-matters
  • Cheers. Will read. My missus was reading something on it yesterday that had her feeling frustrated. It's a murky one.
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  • Channel 4 news had some shithead on last night trying to counter pay gap arguments.

    His major argument seemed to be women are less ruthless than men. His evidence, lobsters show the same attributes and our evolution can be tracked back to that of the lobster.
  • I might be wrong (I skimmed the original article of the woman recounting her night) but she didn't say 'No' at any point or anything like that. It was all 'he wasn't picking up on my non-verbal cues' and her saying 'let's slow it down'. 

    Not that I'm saying it's her fault. Whatever the reason, it seems like that's the crux of it though. Not wanting to disappoint the man, not wanting to be accused of leading him on, being starstruck. Whatever pressure there is on a woman not to say no, it's very different from a Weinstein who doesn't take no for an answer.
  • Channel 4 news had some shithead on last night trying to counter pay gap arguments. His major argument seemed to be women are less ruthless than men. His evidence, lobsters show the same attributes and our evolution can be tracked back to that of the lobster.
    Sounds legit.
  • Channel 4 news had some shithead on last night trying to counter pay gap arguments. His major argument seemed to be women are less ruthless than men. His evidence, lobsters show the same attributes and our evolution can be tracked back to that of the lobster.

    I can understand the pay gap argument only from the point of view that it is presented as averages which is frankly stupid (unless I am misunderstanding things) given how diverse the jobs market is. That said, the above is really stupid and I don't see any defence for paying 2 people doing the same job any major difference. Experience and loyalty within the company should be rewarded alright but it should be a visible reward scale.
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  • A lot of the Ansari stuff is frustrating because he's clearly a big target and the incident whilst hardly victimless errs closer to discomfort and misunderstanding than assault.

    But, when you've positioned yourself as some kind of progressive Softboy and it turns out you're doing the exact things you're making money off criticising, people are gonna react badly. I think that Great Awokening article I shared with Face did a good job of tackling this issue, especially with regards to Ansari.
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    It’s not bad but I must be missing something - it seems, to be, primarily about the sloppy way in which such stories are reported and covered and the issues raised couldn’t really be levelled at the Guardian piece above which seemed compassionate but also wary.

    When the Jezebel article does go over issues with the event itself, it uses the same broad language and tales of power structures that are applied to other stories - like Wesintein, Allen etc.

    It raises the point that she texted him expressing her discomfort with the event, but omits that he apologised immediately and then continued to be a public supporter of women’s rights. It simply states here that he confirmed the exchange and then reiterated support of #metoo.
    Grace said Ansari coerced her into sexual behavior that was well beyond her boundaries, ignoring her verbal and nonverbal attempts to stop their sexual exchange. After the date, she told Babe, she texted Ansari and told him that she had been uncomfortable with the experience, and that he should have been more mindful; the website published screenshots of the text exchange. By Sunday afternoon, Ansari had issued a statement confirming their exchange, and reiterating his support for the #MeToo movement.

    It then states:
    One of journalism’s most important tasks is exposing the hypocrisy of the powerful; if Ansari is publicly claiming feminism but treating women poorly in his private life, that deserves to be interrogated.

    To argue that Ansari has been hypocritical or that he treats women poorly would require a pattern of behaviour to be established. His wokeness does not preclude him from the right to be judged fairly, not does it mean that he is not allowed to miss non-verbal cues. There was never any insinuation that there was an offer of career advancement, nor that he was any physical threat to her or that he lured her to his house on false pretences. Once he was aware of the perceived indiscretion he apologised and neither contacted her, heralded her or, from what we know, sought retribution against her.

    I agree with the basic premise of the article - the way this has been reported has been cheap, shallow and exploitative. But the article itself adds precious little to the discourse and the Guardian column above, IMO, avoids the pitfalls raised.
  • I didn't mean it as a response to the Guardian piece which I largely agree with, just a response to the situation as a whole. I don't think the writer has read everything put out on it, especially as they're largely focusing on US based pieces. I've not read everything either, so I have blind spots there.

    The way the situation is reported sounds to me as if he was pushing beyond what was clearly acceptable. These things are always on a scale, and he's far far away from the Weinstein side of it. You can argue that it might well cheapen actual abuse, I think it's a conversation that can be had alongside that. We only have one report to go on, sought out by a site that clearly sees it as a hot button topic. 

    I won't claim to be unbiased. I will state that I am carrying a mild dislike of Ansari into this that has built over the past year or so, coupled with the unfortunate fact he has written a book on the state of modern romance, and has a show where he pushes feminist issues. Minor (clearly) echoes to Louis CK are apparent with the latter, but i'll stress, it's small potatoes in comparison. The age and fame dynamics muddy things too. I don't think he deserves to be struck off the register or anything, I just understand a lot of people's reactions.

    Anyway, I read it and thought it was good. I thought the Guardian one was good too. I don't think there's one response to take on this situation.

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