My mate is getting married in Spetember.
I have just been added to the Stag do WhatsApp group.
My mate has two groups of friends, us lot from uni and his mates from home.
I've met a couple of his home mates before and I was less than impressed. It was new years and they literally sat in silence playing FIFA.
So no suprise the WhatsApp group is fun.
Some bell end has instantly filled it with videos of the worst kind of "lads on tour" shit at Oktoberfest that I guess a bunch of them went too.
Hilarious antics appeared to include fingering a girl in the middle of a beer tent, standing in the middle of the beer tent and taking a piss, snorting coke off each other's dicks.
I muted the group after that.
My mate is great and I know he wouldnt do any of that stuff himself but his mates are insufferable.
Similar but not my group chat with my three closest mates is currently under seige from my pal that earns way more than any of us, has the nicest house, nicest cars, asking us if we can all go away in April for a lads getaway. While I sit here trying to organise a two trips with the missus and saving for a house. The unwritten guilt is strong and I hate it.
Yeah that is a rough one.
I have always earnt roughly the same as mates that I do stuff with but the ones who have been coupled up for a while now have that benefit of extra disposable income.
Plus for them meeting mates has become an event so some of them insist on doing an activity like mini golf shot or cocktail moxing, which just adds more expense and lessens the amount of time we actually spend catching up.
Mind you they never ask me to sniff coke off their penises so I cant complain too much.