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  • Can't believe they haven't come for Jimmy Page yet.
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    Heh. Damn right.
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  • https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2021/aug/25/ron-jeremy-adult-film-star-indicted-charges

    Should we be surprised that one of the world’s most famous male porn stars has shitty skeletons in his closet?
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    I'm liking the Silence of The Lambs vibe from that pic.
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    That's a shot from his latest movie.
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    Horny young man turns into horny old man.

    Horny old man moves in circles where lots of young ladies are present.

    Trouble.
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  • I'm going to wildly suppose the line between pure bants and abuse is uniquely harder to draw in that industry but that also means a veteran should seriously know the better.
  • “He is also charged with sexually assaulting a 15-year-old girl in 2004.” At which time he’d have been, what, 58?

    Not much room for ‘bants’ there, if you ask me.
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    Silence of the bants.
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    Pretty much what Drew said. BANTS is a cover word for men to be sexist, racist, discriminatory or anything else that is fucked up in our society and get away with it because they didn't really mean it. as a word it needs to fuck right off and die.
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    But keep Frank Reynolds.
  • A guy near me got escorted away in police car to the shouts of "Paedo Dennis" the other week, proper mob mentality. Turns out the guy had previous, the locals found out and everyone marched down to his flat to burn it down or something. 

    I'll never quite understand why you'd drag your young kids to a public shaming but there they were, and they seemed to be having fun. Much cheering when he was bundled into the car.
    "Plus he wore shorts like a total cunt" - Bob
  • No I get that totally get the insanity of it. It seemed more of a fun day out for the locals than anything, including the young 'uns.
    "Plus he wore shorts like a total cunt" - Bob
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    I'm inclined to believe there is no treatment, even with willing.

    I don't mean to DO THE THING, whereby I bring up the difference between those who fancy young teenage girls and kids, because it's impossible to do so without defending the former to some degree, when regardless of biology they're the same psychological crimes. But just on the convo of treatment, I do believe some of that group can be educated on the nature of their abuse and eliminate their attraction.

    Whereas those who are into young kids or even babies... Nah, I don't think you're ever treating those. They just play the game to get released. I've joked about Alcatraz Hotel before, but I'm half-serious about looking after our mentally ill and dangerous individuals well, in order to keep them away from the rest of us.
  • Fascinating as ever Drew.
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    Creating a safe environment for someone who has urges they know are wrong has to be a major part of any solution. Maybe these exist but I'm not aware of them.

    I can't let myself believe that they are all lost causes. @DrewMerson's post gives me hope. This problem has been around as long as we have. It's just more visible now.

    Locking people up should be the last resort. No matter what the crime. It should be primarily for safety. It's a ludicrous form of punishment.
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    Yeah, I don't like the thought of locking anyone up indefinitely, even the worst, but we haven't developed a safe alternative yet. Tagging just says ‘We don't trust you’, so I don't think that's a great solution.

    As far as making paedos live pleasantly on their own estates, that obviously makes them an easy collective target for mobs. And if you take my exile approach, akin to WW2 orphans, it's arguably much easier for them to offend in quiet rural areas.

    I do believe the vast majority of paedos will never progress beyond downloading porn and the odd gawp at the park, but treatment-wise I'd float this question: if they had access to physically abuse without risk, how many wouldn't? Because most are individuals without influence, and the Savile ring really opened my eyes to this.

    At first I found it crazy that so many paedos were outed in proximity, but soon realised they sought that access because they could, so it was actually an influx of celebs, MPs and the very wealthy to one place.

    I suppose this would-they/wouldn't-they doesn't matter in practical terms, since only a tiny minority belong to such high-power rings, but it's still the question I pose to myself when considering the likelihood of successful lifelong treatment. Hence my doubts.
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    DrewMerson wrote:
    I’m always intrigued when questions are asked about committing crime with impunity. It suggests that the prospect of punishment as the only deterrent. In reality, most people don’t want to commit crime against others because of their own moral compass. Life is filled with opportunities to do wrong, and most of us don’t take those opportunities most of the time. Power and influence perhaps gives you more access to more children with less likelihood of repercussions, but most people don’t need any power or influence to still have unsupervised access to children and opportunities to commit contact offences.

    With a palpably high chance of being caught. We'll never know how many people Savile had dirt on, but he was untouchable and knew it, and that deep sense of impunity ran through his associates in the '70s and '80s.

    As far as the vast majority not wanting to commit crimes, I agree, and it's always been the principal argument against our police force, which along with stock markets are things we're encouraged to overlook as relatively modern. But offered the opportunity to steal from a bank with an almost zero chance of being caught, absolutely I would. I could switch off that impulse immediately if I won the lottery, but see no paedo equivalent, where temptation's the act and not aftereffects.

    Which is back into the realm of thought crimes, but again questions whether we believe there are cures hidden behind the dissuasion methods we default to. If there's a way of increasing the efficacy of the latter to near-certainty I guess it becomes moot. At least on a practical front re: social inclusion.

    There's no rhyme or reason for being attracted to those we're attracted to, and I don't think my preferences have changed in decades, but maybe it is possible to rewire and we just don't bother because there's no moral impetus. Besides our min-age cutoff increasing as we age, where most of us stop fancying people we once would have. Except leathery old lechers...
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    When I said creating a safe environment i didn't mean to imply segregation. I meant to say that there should be a safe way of admitting to how you feel and asking for help. My post was poorly written.

    Dealing with those released from prison. Thats a huge issue. They have to have anonymity but mandatory treatment needs subbed for prison to start with. Any punishment needs to be adjusted for having admitted to feelings and undergoing treatment prior to crimes.
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    DrewMerson wrote:
    it is incredibly rare for someone to be attracted exclusively to children, for some it’s a preference, and the rest an interest. So it’s not a case of totally re-wiring the brain, but on shifting focus.

    Sidestepping our distaste for its offensiveness for the sake of this topic, does anyone believe gay conversion could be successful? (Not counting the fire and brimstone idiots who peddle it.)

    I'm sure there've been some American men in the South who've volunteered for it, so clear willing, but if it weren't devil-begone godswallop could they ever fancy women?

    Even if I hadn't mentioned my scepticism, you can infer my view from the question. Schofield and O'Grady have kids, Barrymore was married, and I think Norton once had a girlfriend of sorts...

    Asexuals are often discriminated against by people who don't understand it, their apparent expectation that sexuality can be turned on like a tap unless you're some kind of psycho.
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    I think it's cutting around the heart of whether paedophilia can be cured, versus a sort of privilege system to prevent offences where it's put into hiding. Actions might be discouraged with rewards — I believe that.
  • Well here's a thing...

    Come with g if you want to live...
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    DrewMerson wrote:
    I don’t have a clue what you’re talking about in regard to rewards.

    Like how a lot of violent inmates in US prisons can be placated if they enjoy given privileges more than the acts that remove them, but on release they're square-oners. Criticising the US justice system's another thread...

    My problem with paedophilia is that I find it hard to accept anything less than a cure. Have you ever known someone who changed their sexuality in adulthood (as opposed to resolving confusions)? I haven't, so that obviously informs my thinking at present.

    I do believe the vast majority of paedos don't want to be, but then doesn't that affirm how hard it is to overcome their unwanted feelings? How embedded they are. I think the best we can do is treat them humanely, continue to offer counselling, and ensure children are as safe as possible.

    For all the sweetyman warnings we grew up with, me and my mates played out on the moors all the time and were never bothered. Turns out it was mostly vulnerable kids in care that suffered in the '80s.

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