RedDave2 wrote:Fucking hell. Are there two types of actual male species - civilised and scum just totally led by their dick? This and the recent stuff with greenwood honestly have me thinking that all men should be placed in a planet and just nuke the lot from orbit. Only way to be sure. We assume it's some bad apples but it's fucking whole orchards at this point. The whole crop is tainted. Stop this planet of the apes, I want to get off.
davyK wrote:RedDave2 wrote:Fucking hell. Are there two types of actual male species - civilised and scum just totally led by their dick? This and the recent stuff with greenwood honestly have me thinking that all men should be placed in a planet and just nuke the lot from orbit. Only way to be sure. We assume it's some bad apples but it's fucking whole orchards at this point. The whole crop is tainted. Stop this planet of the apes, I want to get off.
Men in closed groups aren't good.
RedDave2 wrote:Probably true but they don't seem to much better our in the open. I read the greenwood stuff and I can't relate to it on any level. It's awful degradation of another person. The same with those police texts. If anyone doubts toxic masculinity is a thing there's 2 great examples. Thing is, I think that while women get by far the worst of it, I think many of us men also suffer from it. It's the alpha bollocks shit that meant your look or hobby wasn't acceptable at school so you got picked on (as long as you were smaller or isolated of course). It's the sad tossers who jump gay men for kissing in public. It's the guys who square up for fisticuffs when someone looks the wrong way. I'm tired of it so Lord knows how women have lasted this long without flame throwing the lot of us.Men in closed groups aren't good.Fucking hell. Are there two types of actual male species - civilised and scum just totally led by their dick? This and the recent stuff with greenwood honestly have me thinking that all men should be placed in a planet and just nuke the lot from orbit. Only way to be sure. We assume it's some bad apples but it's fucking whole orchards at this point. The whole crop is tainted. Stop this planet of the apes, I want to get off.
https://twitter.com/adambienkov/status/1488524403067559944?s=21New Savanta Comres poll:
Lab: 44% (+4)
Con: 33% (+1)
Lib: 9% (-2)
Greens: 3% (-1)
SNP: 4% (-1)
If repeated at a general election, around 140 Conservative MPs would lose their seats, including Boris Johnson, Jacob Rees-Mogg and Iain Duncan Smith.
davyK wrote:… the challenge is knowing why would people laugh at a particular comment - deliberately being like that for a lark is one thing … but if it's a reflection on deep routed attitudes it's quite another. It's easy to hide in amongst robust gallows humour and bonhomie.
poprock wrote:I think everything you’ve said up there is measured, sensible and true. But I also think there are lines that nobody should be crossing and that people in a position of extreme trust and authority like Police Officers should definitely not be crossing. There’s gallows humour and then there’s just plain nasty. The deliberately hurtful, vindictive stuff is always deep-seated inferiority complexes lashing out. It shouldn’t be accepted.… the challenge is knowing why would people laugh at a particular comment - deliberately being like that for a lark is one thing … but if it's a reflection on deep routed attitudes it's quite another. It's easy to hide in amongst robust gallows humour and bonhomie.
Roujin wrote:I think it's quite sad (and also completely unacceptable) that this is how a chunk of men end up. Completely failed themselves in their own personal development and at some point failed by not being taught how disgusting and pernicious this kind of behaviour is and how it promotes a casual attitude to a whole bunch of stuff that can normalise this kind of mindset or even worse start minimising more serious issues to the point that all the lads are always joking about slapping their other halves, it's not like you punched her in the face or anything, oopsie daisy now you're a domestic abuser.
davyK wrote:Mid term though, innit?
monkey wrote:I know but it’s nice to dream.davyK wrote:Mid term though, innit?
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