Escape wrote:I thought that most changing rooms were just a row of little booths with mirrors and curtains, and were open to all whenever available? It's been a long time since I went out shopping for clothes, though; like, the '90s.
Diluted Dante wrote:I don't agree with your it follows though.
Gender neutral identities involve a kind of grating at the social, an objection to being touched by anything social or universal in content. After all, a regular pronoun describes an individual as something general: to be called ‘he’ is to say that this person, Tom, is something universal, a man. The new identities express a dislike at being part of any general group or category, at being touched or judged by frameworks that are commonly accepted.
Andy wrote:But you are white. And we’re even happy to provide a plethora of variances and specificities: white European, white Northern European, white British.
For a long time you had the option of white or non-white. Then language and bigots gradually caught up with the fact that we needed to broaden that range.
For a long time you had the option of male or female. Language and bigots are gradually catching up with the fact that we need to broaden that range that range.
Yes, I know there are other characteristics, but within the one defining skin colour / ethnicity, the language people previously used lacked the diversity of the things it was describing. The attitude that we must only have the language to describe two genders fails to accept the more diverse reality.RedDave2 wrote:First, I don't think we've ever been just white and non-white. Within the white genre we have division by sex, country, religion, politics. Colour and gender just make it easier to spot who is like you and who isn't.
So, because we’re having difficulty finding the right answer straight away, we should scrap the whole endeavour? With that attitude, our species wouldn’t be where it is today.RedDave2 wrote:Second , one of the problems with the gender thing is that language can't catch up because it's being attributed by personal choice. I've no problem with someone telling me the pronouns they want me to use when we first meet but it's next to impossible to change the language that everyone uses to allow for that knowledge before hand. And given that language is used as a universal method of communication, that's a problem.
Andy wrote:Yes, I know there are other characteristics, but within the one defining skin colour / ethnicity, the language people previously used lacked the diversity of the things it was describing. The attitude that we must only have the language to describe two genders fails to accept the more diverse reality.RedDave2 wrote:First, I don't think we've ever been just white and non-white. Within the white genre we have division by sex, country, religion, politics. Colour and gender just make it easier to spot who is like you and who isn't.
So, because we’re having difficulty finding the right answer straight away, we should scrap the whole endeavour? With that attitude, our species wouldn’t be where it is today.RedDave2 wrote:Second , one of the problems with the gender thing is that language can't catch up because it's being attributed by personal choice. I've no problem with someone telling me the pronouns they want me to use when we first meet but it's next to impossible to change the language that everyone uses to allow for that knowledge before hand. And given that language is used as a universal method of communication, that's a problem.
RedDave2 wrote:I've no problem with someone telling me the pronouns they want me to use when we first meet but it's next to impossible to change the language that everyone uses to allow for that knowledge before hand. And given that language is used as a universal method of communication, that's a problem.
Diluted Dante wrote:RedDave2 wrote:I've no problem with someone telling me the pronouns they want me to use when we first meet but it's next to impossible to change the language that everyone uses to allow for that knowledge before hand. And given that language is used as a universal method of communication, that's a problem.
Language changes all the time.
monkey wrote:Some people might object to being referred to by gender neutral pronouns.
Lea DeLaria wrote:And part of me believes that this inclusivity of calling us the LGBTQQTY-whatever-LMNOP tends to stress our differences. And that's why I refuse to do it. I say queer. Queer is everybody.
Diluted Dante wrote:"Watch out for that John, he's a queer you know."
Diluted Dante wrote:Queer is a horrible term. It's something your grandparents would say about someone.
"Watch out for that John, he's a queer you know."
Plus it's often used in the context of wanting to define yourself as different, which quite a lot of people don't wish to do. Despite what Lea DeLaria thinks, queer is definitely not everybody.
Brooks wrote:Idk I've met plenty of queers who are very happy with queer.
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