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  • Fair enough. I’m actually almost completely unaware of Ansari’s work, so it’s possible I might have had a different reaction with more background knowledge of him as a person.
  • It's the fact he's aligned himself with feminism, making it the whole practice/preach dichotomy. This is clearly a minor transgression, but I can understand why people are so frustrated when it happens, given it isn't the first time a vaguely famous person has done this in the past 6 months. The whole 'feminist to get into their pants' cliche obviously lacks nuance, and ignores individual situations, but that's how these things get discussed in public, because generic situations/examples are easier to relate to than granular situations.

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  • Old person in ‘out of touch’ shocker.
  • Gotta love the french hashtag though, "rat out your pig" - I really like that.

    Bardot's also a big supporter of the National Front I see. Nice.
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    monkey wrote:
    Channel 4 news had some shithead on last night trying to counter pay gap arguments. His major argument seemed to be women are less ruthless than men. His evidence, lobsters show the same attributes and our evolution can be tracked back to that of the lobster.
    Sounds legit.

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    Bardot's from an era when couching made a heap of sense, insofar as no-one was gonna praise her (or even hear of her) for abstaining. She'd have still been stuck in a patriarchal society, with even less agency. Most other jobs were a lot tougher back then, and certainly no more empowering or satisfying. I'd do the bizzo with some old woman for the right money, and though I realise the fairer quid pro quo nature of saying that as man, I'd only consider it because, like Bardot and billions, my other options are a great distance behind.

    To me this is much more about abuses of power than apportioning blame via a gender split. Not to say that it isn't mostly one-way traffic, but there's a bigger picture, where millions of men'd service high-ups for big roles and jobs without a second thought. Also a demeaning practice, but relatively undocumented.

    http://articles.latimes.com/2008/dec/19/opinion/oe-stein19

    Brando and Gibson were way over the line (dunno about Oldman — haven't read), but there's no way to talk about this without been called anti-Semitic. Without being able to ascertain how far nepotism runs, I don't think there is a solution. TV and film are elitist by form, with a similar snakes-and-ladders mechanism to banking. Men are at the top of it, but it's the system that's a problem. If more women are allowed to direct films it'll be for men's virtue profit, with lots of women jumping at the chance in Pyrrhic victories. Hollywood just needs to fuck off, I feel. Oscars, too.

    Kevin Whately and Shane Meadows have both spoken about how hard it is for working-class people to get into acting these days.
  • Everyone's so appalled by this presidents' club thing. I wonder if they would be so appalled if they weren't found out? Like, would the MP have professed his disgust if he wasn't in the limelight? They're all so transparent. As soon as there's a scandal it's 'distance yourself' protocol. Bollocks. I don't believe the half of them.
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    This thread resurfacing reminded me of this blog post:

    https://victimfocus.wordpress.com/2018/01/03/stop-asking-me-what-about-men/

    I liked it.
  • There is no way half of MPs and business lot don't know this is going on.
  • There is no way half of MPs and business lot don't know this is going on.

    Exactly. Once you're caught it's all sanctimonious shite.
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    Yossarian wrote:
    This thread resurfacing reminded me of this blog post: https://victimfocus.wordpress.com/2018/01/03/stop-asking-me-what-about-men/ I liked it.

    There's no real progress without unity. Bastard men are enablers of bastard men, and there's not much that any of us can do. Hollywood and most political parties are founded on it. This growing trend for self-divided condemnation seems most likely to fuel them.

    Even if we boot the Tories, the Hoorays aren't going away. Meanwhile, we've TERFs; gay men criticising trans activism; intersectional-others criticising white-priv rhetoric; women criticising men; and the unsustainability of LGBTQIHSZ+ as a nonfactious group. But Henry's fine.
  • So the local Labour party (in this case Vauxhall) is mired in an implosion over self-identification as trans. A furore occurred over the election of a teenage boy turned woman as "woman's officer" for the local CLP. She barely seems competent is I suspect the problem, and like all teenagers is mostly about me me me, meaning lots of tweets about her, about trans, and the result is a feeling that biological women have that she doesn't care about them. I only know about this because I follow Pilgrim Tucker, a true hero and inspiration and a voice for Grenfell résidents for years before the fire. A courageous and dedicated left wing woman, who now has been threatened with expulsion and other things and shouted down as transphobic for daring to question whether trans women can self-identify and then run for positions on all-time shortlists. I emphasize question. She asked for a secret ballot on the issue and was turned down

    With such developments the interests of all are fractured, fragmented and their aspirations materially harmed.

    I have to say the "unquestioning" ethos of any trans, feminist, racial or whatever issue is quite ridiculous. It'll lead our society into deep waters. It reminds me of that Adam Curtis documentary where he highlighted the reductio as absurdem of those "hierarchy-free" cults in 70s America. They ended up led by violent and intimidating alpha males. Women were irreversibly harmed.
  • From a brief look on Twitter, she's advocating the same things that Republicans did with their bathroom bills, and re-tweeting a lot of people doing the same.

    She and the others appearing on her timeline, are at least casually transphobic from their messages. She might be a hero over Grenfall, and whatever started this might be completely wrong, but she really isn't covering herself in glory over this.
  • A summary judgement that reads just like all summary judgements: stupid and reactionary.
  • Check out @FemmeBitsu’s Tweet: https://twitter.com/FemmeBitsu/status/956854219255918592?ref_src=twcamp^share|twsrc^android|twgr^default|twcon^7090|twterm^1

    Should answer the preposterous responses like Dante's of "where there's smoke there's fire", or "I had a quick browse and she seems angry and emotional therefore I'm not even going to investigate the underlying issue at all and apply my mind to it."
  • This is called SCAPEGOATING. 
    You're all blaming @PilgrimTucker for being disruptive, emotional- understandable when the meeting & vote was a fait accompli. 
    Your #LabourLosingWomen cadre is in an echo chamber, refusing to hear what biowomen are saying. Ignore us at your peril.

    Biowomen sounds like an upcoming entry in the Marvel Cinematic Universe.
  • That's my important input into this debate.
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    Trans issues are a real flashpoint on the left right now, I’m not really sure where I stand on any of it.

    On the one hand, I tend instictively towards accepting self-identification, on the other, I recognise that I won’t be at the sharp end of any issues that could theoretically arise from the acceptance of this and that those that are should be heard out and their concerns taken seriously.

    Quite how to balance these two sets of rights is beyond me.
  • Not having experienced it myself I’m not sure how you can instinctively ‘know’ that you’re living as the wrong gender. But fair enough, if you want your bollocks off then go for it.
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    Well quite, but the issue is more about questions of access to female only spaces and some women feeling uncomfortable sharing these spaces with people who may still have bollocks.
  • Are the bollocks out in these spaces?
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    LarryDavid wrote:
    Are the bollocks out in these spaces?

    Potentially. Changing rooms, bathrooms things like that.
  • I think I agree with the women on this issue, you can’t just walk in the ladies toilets, whip your cock out, take a piss in the sink & then say “it’s alright luv, I self-identify as a woman”.

    I’m simplifying the issue massively for comedy effect, but you get the idea.
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    OTOH, trans women have a very high incidence of assault and are unlikely to feel particularly safe in a pub toilet with men.
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    I think I agree with the women on this issue, you can’t just walk in the ladies toilets, whip your cock out, take a piss in the sink & then say “it’s alright luv, I self-identify as a woman”. I’m simplifying the issue massively for comedy effect, but you get the idea.
    But then if you feel like you are a woman (and like you I don't really have the first concept of how that works) then being forced into a grubby piss-swept men's toilet might be a bit, dunno, humiliating, depressing. Yoss's post a bit up the page is about right for me. There's two competing sets of rights with this stuff and it's very hard to resolve them. With the specific thing about the women's officer post, well if it's an important job don't give it to a bloody teenager of whatever gender.
  • The gents are generally depressing (and occasionally humiliating) for us too.

    I get the point, though. In an ideal world pubs across the land would add an extra ‘lavatory for people of indeterminate gender or with gender confusion issues’. But that’s unlikely to happen. Plus the Mail would go mental about it if anywhere did.

    I get that the issue is about more than toilets too, I know the main bone of contention for trans people is not ‘where do we take a leak on a night out?’
  • Yossarian wrote:
    OTOH, trans women have a very high incidence of assault and are unlikely to feel particularly safe in a pub toilet with men.

    This is kinda the tricky bit. Trans rights and understanding way behind everything else. (I'm with Yoss in the I'm not sure on a number of fronts camp.)

    On slightly unrelated matters, I have been listening in to my missus and my mum and another friend of ours discussing stuff from the perspective of an old 2nd waver (my mum) to a tail end second waver, my missus and friend. Like the general left and old school socialists, I really wish 2nd and 3rd wave would sit down and have a bit of a chat.



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  • Now I can't remember if posted this.

    https://www.theglobeandmail.com/opinion/am-i-a-bad-feminist/article37591823/

    Anyhoo, what the ladies in my life were discussing was stuff around rape and consent etc and Aziz. The above is pertinent. Without reading other takes on it, Atwood seems on point.
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