Among women aged 18-24, 97% said they had been sexually harassed, while 80% of women of all ages said they had experienced sexual harassment in public spaces.
MattyJ wrote:Yar. And also ensuring the conversation isn't all 'she was wearing a short skirt/she was on her own/she shouldn't be out at night', but actually 'that guy is a cunt'. The conversation has gone on too long with framing sexual assault as somehow partly the victims fault.
Lord_Griff wrote:The 97% stat is all that people look at. Further scrutiny then yields that asking someone out for a drink is harassment.MattyJ wrote:Yar. And also ensuring the conversation isn't all 'she was wearing a short skirt/she was on her own/she shouldn't be out at night', but actually 'that guy is a cunt'. The conversation has gone on too long with framing sexual assault as somehow partly the victims fault.
Diluted Dante wrote:Lord_Griff wrote:The 97% stat is all that people look at. Further scrutiny then yields that asking someone out for a drink is harassment.MattyJ wrote:Yar. And also ensuring the conversation isn't all 'she was wearing a short skirt/she was on her own/she shouldn't be out at night', but actually 'that guy is a cunt'. The conversation has gone on too long with framing sexual assault as somehow partly the victims fault.
It depends entirely on how it is done, and the circumstances it's done in.
Lord_Griff wrote:The 97% stat is all that people look at. Further scrutiny then yields that asking someone out for a drink is harassment.MattyJ wrote:Yar. And also ensuring the conversation isn't all 'she was wearing a short skirt/she was on her own/she shouldn't be out at night', but actually 'that guy is a cunt'. The conversation has gone on too long with framing sexual assault as somehow partly the victims fault.
Lord_Griff wrote:My thoughts are that anyone can talk to anyone, as long as it is in a civil manner.
Roujin wrote:Lord_Griff wrote:My thoughts are that anyone can talk to anyone, as long as it is in a civil manner.
Okay that's great but you are a man, so being civil probably just means acting in a manner that is not aggressive, or outwardly rude or prejudiced.
Imagine if you are a woman, and a man comes up to you and says whatever you are wearing looks nice and would you like to go get a drink, and you politely decline. Later, you are walking home and by pure chance the same guy from earlier is walking towards you in the park on your way home and there is no one around. How do you think you would feel about that?
Brooks wrote:I'm really not particularly convinced this is a problem for individual men to solve, neolib self-help shit lets a lot of powerful structures off the hook.
poprock wrote:Equally, it’s not a problem for individual men to ignore either. The personal is political, as the riot grrrls used to say.Brooks wrote:I'm really not particularly convinced this is a problem for individual men to solve, neolib self-help shit lets a lot of powerful structures off the hook.
I think this will just keep happening and maybe we’re at peak “good” and rotten stuff is impossible to fully stop.
Roujin wrote:Okay that's great but you are a man, so being civil probably just means acting in a manner that is not aggressive, or outwardly rude or prejudiced. Imagine if you are a woman, and a man comes up to you and says whatever you are wearing looks nice and would you like to go get a drink, and you politely decline. Later, you are walking home and by pure chance the same guy from earlier is walking towards you in the park on your way home and there is no one around. How do you think you would feel about that?Lord_Griff wrote:My thoughts are that anyone can talk to anyone, as long as it is in a civil manner.
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