ChattinWithChet wrote:Tropicana do a very nice range of mixed juices. Their Ruby Breakfast is delicious, as is the red grape juice. Grapes are underrated in their non-alcoholic form.
Plan M wrote:So yeah - give up whilst you can. It will make your quality of life far better.
Orly? How old is the kid now? Any cognitive or behavioural problems?Space wrote:It depends on why you drink. I actually love the taste of every mouthful. My old boss was a fairly heavy drinker until she got pregnant. Much to her horror, her pregnancy craving was for gin. The mere smell of it would make her actually drool. She was telling me that she could not stop thinking about the stuff and secretly tanked about half a bottle a day. Much to her relief the baby was fine, and as soon as she became a mother the cravings went away. She hasn't touched it since.
Space wrote:It would be far better to tell people that if they suspect alcohol is having a negative impact on their lives it probably is, and should therefore cut down.Â
Coopers Green wrote:Jesus. She might think the baby is fine, but fucking hell – half a bottle of gin a day? I'm far from an expert, but that sounds like a prime candidate for Foetal Alcohol Syndrome. Stupid, idiotic woman. And blaming it on the 'cravings' sounds to me like a ridiculous fucking excuse for borderline alcoholism.
How do you explain everything that came after that then?Plan M wrote:Drinking copious amounts of booze every day is bad for you, simple as that. Just like eating junk food for lunch and dinner every day of the week is bad for you. It's all about moderation. I drank like a fish for years. It caused me long term depression, weight gain, effected my fertility, dented our bank account and turned me into a selfish, unreasonable arsehole. There's nothing good about drinking a lot every day, put it that way. Anyone who says otherwise is in denial.
So, guidelines do harm because people are told the guidelines and become suspicious about it, then untrustful of other guidelines ... and then what? At what point does the harm occur?Space wrote:@ chump It does harm because it's untrue. There's plenty of octogenarian wine makers in France and Italy who'd laugh at the idea of a set amount units. I know because I've met some. They tend to drink a couple of bottles a day but they eat well and are frightening fit for their age. A general rule that specific about units is misinformation and should be treated with the contempt it deserves. It would be far better to tell people that if they suspect alcohol is having a negative impact on their lives it probably is, and should therefore cut down. Tell people they shouldn't be drinking more than 21 units a week and they'll say "Why? Where did go get that figure from? Are you actually talking bollocks? Maybe I'll ignore the other stuff you're telling me. Does concentrated apple juice really make up one of my five a day? Why five? In Poland and France it's nine." etc etc.
Space wrote:What's a lot?
Skerret wrote:How do you explain everything that came after that then?Plan M wrote:Drinking copious amounts of booze every day is bad for you, simple as that. Just like eating junk food for lunch and dinner every day of the week is bad for you. It's all about moderation. I drank like a fish for years. It caused me long term depression, weight gain, effected my fertility, dented our bank account and turned me into a selfish, unreasonable arsehole. There's nothing good about drinking a lot every day, put it that way. Anyone who says otherwise is in denial.
Space wrote:What's a lot?
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